Everyday people have many decisions to make, some are easier then others. Tonight I am writing this to get some pent up frustration off my chest. Recently I myself have been having to make some hard decisions about my future and what it means to surround myself by people that can support what I do and people I can look at for inspiration for where I see myself in the future, which is hopefully in a good job with good friends.
School is starting up again in a few weeks and if everything goes according to plan I should be graduating in the spring with my degree and a few certificates. Along the way I have been working hard on my writing and learning more about what it takes to get ahead in life. I have been enjoying learning more about people and using the social networking sites like twitter and facebook. On the professional side i have been trying to learn about building a resume and portfolio.
What I have learned more and more recently is that everything has become about politics and how what each person says is going to put be underneath a microscope for analysis. It seems that now companies are seeing the light and using social networking sites for promotional uses for contests and news outlets instead of press releases for gamers. With the trends that seem to be growing at an alarming rate when looking at twitter, the actual social aspect has lost the appeal and people don’t express themselves enough on a personal standpoint, it seems to just be links to news sites, contests, and rehashing of the everyday topics. Where has the social part gone?
Something else that has been bothering me is the constant feeling of entitlement people have gotten recently with prizes, giveaways, and gifts in general. It seems like more people complain about how they don’t get something, rather then thanking the person for the chance and opportunity to give something away. I know the economy is in a downturn, but looking a gift horse in the mouth and spitting in it, has really become to upset me greatly.
I take pride in the work that I do and I am grateful for everything that I get or any chance that is given to me and take it head on. I will not sit here and beg like a dog and pout if something doesn’t go my way or if something isn’t immediately given to me. Hard work pays off and there is no way around that. Shortcuts in life will only get you so far, and in the workforce I want to be a part of, someone who cuts corners might make it to the top for a small amount of time, but ultimately will fall over, because they have no foundation.
I do my best not to brag about what I do and the things I get, because it is not necessary, hard work has its rewards and if I am able to share with someone I will. I always spend out of my own pocket when going to events or buying equipment. If I’m able to do something it is because I have saved money and made my own personal sacrifices to make it happen.
As I look towards what I have planned personally for myself and the work that I do, I have to re-evaluate what is working in my life and what isn’t. I do apologize if my time is limited and I can’t give anyone my full attention all the time. If we only talk briefly or sometimes not for a while it isn’t because I am ignoring you. I am one person and can only be spread so far. My time this summer has been hectic and the fall is looking even busier with school and my responsibilities in my personal life and the work I do.
I have always been honest with people and if you want to know something and I am allowed to talk about the subject I will. I have no problems facing people and saying something to their face. Honestly and the ability to treat others with full disclosure is something I pride myself with everyday. There is no need for me to lie to anyone. I might be a little harsh with what I might say at times, but the truth is the best way to open people’s eyes and that you can see what is going on. If anyone needs advice and needs to hear the unedited truth on a subject don’t hesitate to contact me, I like to help where I can.
Final thoughts
Work hard and focus on what you want to achieve and be thankful that you have the chance to do what you want with your life, you only get one.
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